{"id":33,"date":"2016-05-27T17:54:46","date_gmt":"2016-05-27T17:54:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/?p=33"},"modified":"2016-05-28T00:28:58","modified_gmt":"2016-05-28T00:28:58","slug":"i-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you-beta-male","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/2016\/05\/27\/i-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you-beta-male\/","title":{"rendered":"I Don&#8217;t Want to Sleep With You Beta Male"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-attachment-id=\"34\" data-permalink=\"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/2016\/05\/27\/i-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you-beta-male\/sleep\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/undestruction.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/sleep.jpg?fit=500%2C332\" data-orig-size=\"500,332\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"sleep\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/undestruction.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/sleep.jpg?fit=300%2C199\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/undestruction.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/sleep.jpg?fit=500%2C332\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-34\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/undestruction.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/sleep.jpg?resize=300%2C199\" alt=\"sleep\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/undestruction.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/sleep.jpg?resize=300%2C199 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/undestruction.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/sleep.jpg?w=500 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to sell you something here.<\/p>\n<p>You are too nice. You avoid conflicts. You want to be perfect. You keep score of the wrongs other people do. What do you resent? Your mother for raising such a perfect boy? Do you want me to hold your hand? Maybe you will just avoid me, ignore me, roll your eyes when you are behind my back. Perhaps you will just fail on purpose.<\/p>\n<p>You say you are sensitive. You can really empathize with others. You want their approval so you hide your mistakes. When you look at women you feel shame yet women are the only friends you have. You know how to fix things. To make it all right. Maybe some day you will be rewarded for your goodness?\u00a0No beta male, even feminists hate you!<\/p>\n<p>[Fill in pick up artist book here&#8230; <em>10 Rules to Be an Alpha and Pick Up Chicks<\/em> or something&#8230; oh, I don&#8217;t know&#8230; you losers will buy anything from me.]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m going to sell you something here. You are too nice. You avoid conflicts. You want to be perfect. You keep score of the wrongs other people do. What do you resent? Your mother for raising such a perfect boy? Do you want me to hold your hand? Maybe you will just avoid me, ignore &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/2016\/05\/27\/i-dont-want-to-sleep-with-you-beta-male\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;I Don&#8217;t Want to Sleep With You Beta Male&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7AeEB-x","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":96,"url":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/2016\/10\/30\/revelation-in-1-minute\/","url_meta":{"origin":33,"position":0},"title":"Revelation in 1 Minute","date":"October 30, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"\u00a0 The tubeway was not in its usual configuration. 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We have something in common, this apparition and I.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In \"ghost\"","img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/undestruction.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/creatures-300x200.jpg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":76,"url":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/2016\/06\/01\/broken\/","url_meta":{"origin":33,"position":4},"title":"Broken","date":"June 1, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Yes, she did find love the voice intones with wisdom born from knowing the past, or is it the future? But now she is broken and the melancholy though hopeful score is of no help. Hey voice, actually do something helpful or shut up! Right, you are just a voice.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Whatever&quot;","img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=33"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":39,"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/33\/revisions\/39"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=33"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=33"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/undestruction.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=33"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}